@victoriablackwell
- My DH and I are lucky in a few different ways. We have amazing, low cost health insurance and will not need to save more than a couple hundred for that, but make sure you have enough set aside to cover medical bills! We were also lucky enough to graduate college with minimal loans and had those paid off years ago. As far as saving, we wanted to have enough set aside to cover 12 weeks of my pay and at least 2 weeks of DH's pay with a buffer. We have been able to put away a decent amount monthly and live in a lower COL area, so the amount we are putting away should be enough to cover daycare when that time comes.
- We try to do things that will be more difficult with a baby. Go out for bloodies and bar bingo on a random saturday afternoon, hit up a winery or brewery, stay in bed all morning and watch Netflix, take a random day or weekend trip. Also, planning things to look forward too helps. Get tickets to a local music show or festival. Maybe a sporting event if you are into that kind of thing!