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    Thinking about being OAD because first born is so easy??

    @brhjz My friend had her second recently and he has reflux. Her first was easy. Yeah, so glad I got an easy one the first time. Wasn't taking any chances.
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    Why is it so hard to make mom friends??

    @elzappozah I honestly didn't make a lot of mom friends when my kid was young. It wasn't until she got to sports/band/theatre/music that I met more people. I am socially awkward, so it was never easy, but I would just volunteer to help. Once you are seen as someone who will help out people find...
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    But my husband’s family name will die if we don’t have a boy!

    @ayleeann Or that your boy child will ever have kids.
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    But my husband’s family name will die if we don’t have a boy!

    @altrechts I think it will depend on who my kid marries if she does. She will probably pick the one that sounds better with her first name. Luckily my husbands brother has all boys, so we should be fine. I was actually surprised my sil gave the boys her husbands last name. She kept hers and...
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    Anybody else feel like a bit of a failure?

    @ladyknox I am glad you have a therapist. You are in a rough part of parenting. I sent my only off to college last week and I just want to say it gets better. For me being able to not lose myself was really important. Not saying all parents of multiples lose themselves, I just know I would not...
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    Why isn’t this particular risk of back to back pregnancies ever discussed?

    @singingtheblues My kid is 18 and that whole area is kind of dead to me. Every once in a while I get this horrible rippling feeling like it might wake up. My c section was kind of an emergency after a somewhat normal labor. My bladder was totaled, which is one of the many reasons I am one and...
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    Help me grieve/get over this

    @danielson0101 It will come up in the future, but at least for me I was always too busy with other stuff to spend much time with regret. When you have rough days acknowledge them and move on. Honestly you probably won't even have to. The hardest part is making a decision. The rest will...
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