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@youu Strangers can absolutely speak to parents of multiples. I have had lots of lovely experiences when out with my two, especially when they were younger. I've had the usual weirdos that say stuff that was the same when out with my singleton too. It's often the way things are said that is...

@harveyonwall I once had a friend (one of the same ones here) say "oh behave you can't walk, I was the same size as you when I was pregnant with 2 of mine. With the last one my midwife even said I was the size of someone carrying twins but it was all water" I bit her head off in my hormonal...

@diddle Actually one of the friends has kids close in age (I bet you can imagine those comments too 🙄) so that never bothered her either. But a few weeks ago I was crying and ranting in the group chat, and this is what fully made them understand how hard twins is. One of my twins is autistic...

@diddle I once broke down crying over my anxiety of having twins when I was pregnant and my 2 close friends said "oh I would love to have twins". They weren't just trying to make me feel better. It's conversations we have had in the past. And I just said "no you don't. You love the idea of...

@coolguy123 First of all. Please don't feel bad for your thoughts and emotions. I unexpectedly found myself pregnant, and then at my first scan I found out I was 15 weeks with twins. I already had 1 who had just turned 12 and they have additional needs. My partner seemed happy while I...