@forainer My heart goes out to you mate. During our baby's birth we had a nurse that was pretty shitty and despite trying to advocate and support my wife it still had its bad moments and I felt kinda bad after the fact.
But the reality is you did the best you could. Healthcare is shit and we...
@davidpark I'm jelly of your resources to outsource those things.
Honestly I don't see the point in trying to convince her one way or the other.
You'll both find out soon enough.
But if you have more specific questions, I'm happy to share my experience so car. I have a 2 month old baby girl.
@vivienh I would encourage you to check out your local community college. With or without a kid, it would likely be cheaper, you just need to make some calls to confirm that the credits would be transferable to whatever college you ultimately go to.
Also check out online colleges- I think...
@vivienh You can't have both right now.
You didn't have this connection growing up and your son will also not have this connection if you make the choice you seem set on making at the moment.
Hard truths.
I have further thoughts on how you could do college but still be there for your kid if...
@mikeyrobbie I fucking hate that man. You got something worrisome about your kid and you can't talk to your wife about it because you don't want to qorry her more than she already is.
I'll try to respond if you want to post more. It fucking sucks.