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    OAD by choice - when did you/your S.O. get a vasectomy?

    @jenny777 My son is about to turn 4 and my husband just got his vasectomy. Sometimes we think about what life would be with more than 1, but it’s a financial decision for us. We can’t provide for more than 1. So we did what we had to do.
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    Next level rudeness

    @stevenglo Why in the why are people so pushy? I’m so sorry that you had that experience. I think you handled it absolutely perfectly!
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    Genuinely curious - why do people choose to keep having kids despite health risks?

    @girl4god86 People are willing to overlook risks if they want to grow their family. I also had HELLP syndrome very bad and had to deliver under a c section with general anesthesia. It was awful and traumatic. So I understand the trauma!!I’d likely have it again and I’m older now. But, that is...
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    Help me grieve/get over this

    @danielson0101 Sending you all the love. I am also 38 and although we didn’t undergo IVF, we’ve made the decision to remain OAD permanent. For me it’s a little more difficult. Mostly for financial reasons - we cannot afford a second child. I’m still grieving the second child I sometimes imagine...
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