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@paulamasu I feel you, 3 retrievals last year and 2 transfers and I gained weight and look softer and don’t recognise myself. Got pregnant at my heaviest I’ve ever been. So grateful to be pregnant I cry every day with happiness, but I think I’ll always be envious of people who don’t have to go...

@yac11 Oh that’s so hard. Getting pregnant by accident literally seems impossible to even comprehend haha. Loneliness is definitely the strongest feeling, nobody gets it. Except this amazing community

@eudy93 Yes I swear before we started trying I had one friend with a kid haha then since I started trying everyone is falling pregnant easily and having their baby’s and I’m just stuck where I was 2 years ago

@findingrest Thank you, it’s so unfair

@crossroads81 It can feel so shameful. I hope you take some comfort that there’s so many of us out here who feel the exact same. I know reading through all these comments has made me feel less alone

@heretolove Feel all of this! I’m so anxious and cynical I don’t have any spare happiness to share. I hate it too but I can’t force it.

@aigli Would you recommend the book? Did it help?

@alwayslearning1130 Yes so true. I sit there at catch ups just willing nobody to talk to me because I don’t have the energy to engage and be fun. It’s impossible to hang out with all my pregnant friends and friends with baby’s without just feeling worse

@chootas Yes!! I feel the exact same. Weddings and engagements just being even more anxiety. When you just wish you could celebrate and be happy, nothing stops that anxious feeling in your stomach

8 months in - you walk past your husband on his phone and notice he’s looking at a positive pregnancy test in a group chat. Overall feeling is excitement, maybe you’ll be pregnant at similar times? You find it a bit insensitive that the test was sent with the intention to confuse the boys group...