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@akne Well if you chip in some, and ex & hubby does who knows... Aparently they can afford to send two kids. Some schools offer a discount for multiple... But yeah money is a touchy subject... I'd love to send my kids to a Montessori or the Goddard school.. But their expensive as hell...

@akne So find a 3rd option, have them go to the private school near you.. :D I get it alot easier said then done.. But assuming their other kids go to the school near you, this appears (offhand) to be less of having kids closer to one parent or the other. As her "new" kids go to the one near...

@avimay So it depends on the distance.., etc.. but here's a suggestion.. I have a camera in my living room, and my youngest has a kindle tablet.. and a bowl of snacks. She's 11 now, but when I had to do small 10 min trips or basic stuff to the corner bus etc.. I'd tell her to call me from her...

@flowersmaywither So I've had this conversation with my ex a few dozen times (I'm #3 out of 6 kids LOL). My ex is the 1st of 2 kids, and I'm sure she had some chores as a kid, but her perspective is that kids shouldn't have to lift a finger. (ever) for ie.. When she 1st went to a college...

@jordanw123 You can ask nicely if you can see the account.. As to having all parties for the bank account.. I'm not sure my bank only limits it to 1 adult and 1 child per account.

@jordanw123 So one thing is who the hell knows what account he's putting it in. If he is putting it into another account for college fund etc.. ie I have a pa529 account for each of my kids, my ex has the info as well. He should be able to give you a statement. And since it's "the kids money"...

@athena1312138 So here's my 2 cents.. When the kids are with you, your in charge. If you want to have them meet someone, do it. Trust your gut. And more then likely your ex is trying to be controlling. When my ex and I split, my statement to her was she should date someone 3-4 months...

@jambor So im going to say this and I'm a guy. More then likely he didn't intend to hurt your feelings. Alot of guys don't think about how a message will be taken by others if we do it's a quick 5 second thought. Or if we do, we try and craft it in a way to get the info across without saying...