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@flowersmaywither So I've had this conversation with my ex a few dozen times (I'm #3 out of 6 kids LOL). My ex is the 1st of 2 kids, and I'm sure she had some chores as a kid, but her perspective is that kids shouldn't have to lift a finger. (ever) for ie.. When she 1st went to a college...

@jordanw123 You can ask nicely if you can see the account.. As to having all parties for the bank account.. I'm not sure my bank only limits it to 1 adult and 1 child per account.

@jordanw123 So one thing is who the hell knows what account he's putting it in. If he is putting it into another account for college fund etc.. ie I have a pa529 account for each of my kids, my ex has the info as well. He should be able to give you a statement. And since it's "the kids money"...

@athena1312138 So here's my 2 cents.. When the kids are with you, your in charge. If you want to have them meet someone, do it. Trust your gut. And more then likely your ex is trying to be controlling. When my ex and I split, my statement to her was she should date someone 3-4 months...

@jambor So im going to say this and I'm a guy. More then likely he didn't intend to hurt your feelings. Alot of guys don't think about how a message will be taken by others if we do it's a quick 5 second thought. Or if we do, we try and craft it in a way to get the info across without saying...