@lesbian5eva I’ve never done this but I have gotten a PhD… of course it depends on the discipline but usually getting a PhD is way more flexible than anything else. Is it possible for you each to work essentially part time during the week (and the other parents in that time)? Your partner could...
@mike12912 Sneakers (new balance), ankle boots (sorel), and light canvas sneakers (superga). Birkenstocks in summer. That’s pretty much it and I am liking the simplified approach.