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@noname5137 Thanks he stays muted and this reasoning is great advice

@stefana What do you mean be a good person lol? You sound like my ex. For the record, I don't argue, I ignore. The ignoring is exhausting. And for the record, I also can say I did and I am doing my best, but continue to judge if you see fit.

@stefana Yes i know but I'd rather not have to always take the high road. It's exhausting.

@katrina2017 I'll consider it. I don't want to burden my family with him

@katrina2017 Very good point. I wouldn't block because what if there's an emergency and she's with him.

@stefana Maybe I'll phrase it that way. Didn't help with communicating but think it'll reduce some of the back and forth.

@mikeirvan My suggestion. I really am hoping he can look at the calender, see what she's got going on and then request her that weekend. All i have to do is say confirmed because he can read the calender. Maybe my expectations are too high for the app but in hoping it reduces or eliminates...

@stefana Yeah #3 would make my life easier. But it would require him to be a responsible parent vs just the fun dad. Also it would allow me to actually plan my free time better, so he would never do that.

@sarahsisterinchrist We never have followed that schedule. Biggest waste of money and 2 years of drama for him to say, you really thought I was going to do any of that. And he has done none of it, yet fought me so hard on silly stuff like luck up at 7:15 vs 7:30 on Tuesdays. How is an...

@heavensvoice So true. Boundaries only work when we firmly hold them. I needed to be reminded that I'm not a victim, I have some power in this situation

@frepet Thank you so much. I felt your support through this post. Gray rock has been a life saver. It's so much more peaceful for me, I wish I would have known about it from day one. I too count down birthdays as one less year that I have to engage with him. Best of luck to you!

@klw1957 Thank you. This is all so true! It's getting out of the mindset that just because i requested something that makes sense, doesn't mean he'll comply so i have to stick to my guns. He hasn't paid for the app. I just asked him to use it and he refuses. Then he tries to make plans with...

@dollapy Thank you, I will look into the laws here!!!

@klw1957 I asked him and his parents to use it a long time ago. Ignored. I talked to a lawyer that was upfront and said they could get a court order but I had a court order for visitation, drug testing, etc and he never did any of it. I guess I'm trying to figure out how well the piece of...

Any suggestions on how to make the other parent use the parenting app so I can limit the childish conversations about pickup and schedules etc. (I.e. Are you slow or just stupid, i said i well drop her clothes off when i fell like it?, why can't you drop her off? My girlfriend is taking me out...