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@4jesusl0ver2 My guy is also there three days a week. If he was there full time, it would be 2100/ month.

@4jesusl0ver2 We’re at $1500/ month for one. After health insurance and 15% in retirement, I’m spending more than half my check on daycare for a TODDLER — infant would be way more. We didn’t do infant care because my dad was a SAHP. I’m always shocked to see people with 2+ kids when both parents...

@james84 I’m surprised by these comments. I always hear from parents that having 2 is exponentially harder (not just twice as hard). I’ve taken that to heart big time.

@paloma22 💯 we also don’t have a village so the high energy times are… stressful. My husband works from home and I’m the primary caretaker two days a week. My son also doesn’t sit still but he doesn’t scream or get disruptive. He does need constant engagement so when I need to do something...

@paloma22 I’ve heard 6 is when things get… easy. For me, 0-3 months were ☹️ and the feeding from 6-15 months were 😩. Colic and all the food mess just killed me. I want to validate that you have a high energy kid. My 2 year old listens to directions well and isn’t super disruptive. He has...

@jlkuhioe We have two close friends. One lives 40 mins away and the other 15 mins away. Son also just started daycare last month at 18 mos. So, daycare and those two friends are our village. My family lives out of state and my husband’s family is nearby but not interested. I would consider a...