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    Dating as a Single Dad is Frustrating

    @rosine When I was about 16 my stepmom left my dad , they had been together since I was little. The years that followed were INSANE. I had only been seeing my dad EOW mg entire life and he wasn’t a big part of my life or frankly very nice. His new wife- she sent him to jail one day because he...
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    @leotiger1986 I’m just confused as to why you would suggest that. He doesn’t even want to take our child for a 48 hour block for Christmas or thanksgiving, let alone have her for a week at a time. Can’t force 50/50 on someone
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    @leotiger1986 What do you mean do week/ week?
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    @leafbyniggle Oh no, it snd about money but rather a loyalty to his company and he doesn’t like if when they feel like they’re in a bind. He is a diesel mechanic at a garbage company. It’s also annoying because we were together when he took this job….he could have worked ANYWHERE and he still...
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    @leafbyniggle This is my point too! Of course I would PREFER to be able to see my child on the holiday as I have never spent one without her…but when I think about what is best for her, it seems obvious that the less she is shuttled around and getting to spend Xmas eve and Xmas morning at the...
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    @wezcountry That is great to hear. We are on EOW and then the respective Wednesdays and I sort of feel like if he wants his Wednesday he can get her after school and take her to school the next AM so she gets more time with him and doesn’t just have to spend an hour there before bed. Because for...
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    @mlgprogamer117 The one thing I can be thankful for as of right now if he has no interest in dating and people keep saying well if he does maybe he will leave you alone but I have seen in so many other situations it just escalates the issue and sometime then their partner just gets involved and...
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    @mlgprogamer117 Wow some Things you say sound so much like my situation!!!! He will hold strong on things he has done like drinking behind the wheel With the kids in the car As him not having a drinking problem and won’t ever agree to a alcohol clause because I can’t “ control him.” But wants...
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    @mlgprogamer117 Yes! He originally served me with papers to establish paternity in like March I believe…and he still has never even done the paperwork to be put on her birth certificate. He was also filing for a parenting plan ETC but never came up with one. We spent months litigating a...
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    @katrina2017 So they are also responsible for dropping off at school Monday AM? And did they oppose it at all or were in agreement ?
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    @katrina2017 Okay! Makes sense. I can’t even find standard possession for our state and county but I’m pretty sure I read the standards they go off of and they don’t factor in a weekday overnight if the other parent lives more than 15 miles away from me or the school which he does. It sucks...
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    @katrina2017 Ugh! This is what I want! She is still a few years from starting k because she has a late October birthday! How did you get ex to agree to “ all,” of the driving after you guys shared it for so long? This would be the greatest outcome for me!
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    How many people here do exchanges / start time at school end? I would prefer when my daughter starts going to school that it be our exchange spot because it is a very high conflict situation and I think it would be nice for him to not have that extra time to berate me / say mean things in front...
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