@asdgho The sheer terror of the possibility of getting pregnant so quickly would have deterred me I think. I was soooo fucked up physically and emotionally (c section, nicu babies, then gallbladder removal 6 weeks post partum) though so it wasn’t even on my radar.
@raaven They are Modi.
I’m just struggling with so many feelings. If I go through with the RFA I feel like I’m murdering my kid. If I don’t do it I’m knowingly putting a perfectly healthy baby at risk. It’s an impossible choice.
I’m seeing a neonatologist and another MFM at the local...
@agape49 I’m almost an Irish twin. My brother is 13 month younger. It got really hard when we hit middle school because our friend groups were mashing together too much and we were on all the same sports teams and it just felt like we could grow on our own. We fought like crazy. We loved each...
@agape49 Be honest…did you have 5 seconds of horror when you found out you were pregnant again? I would have died I think. Happy would have come later hahaha
@treacle99 They didn’t give me a specific stage. My notes say “S/D Ratio: On occasion the end of diastole, there is a “gap” in diastolic flow.”
Then later on “Twin B seen with rare AEDF at the end of diastole, no REDF seen. No TTTS, no TAPS”
TW: possible death
Just left my 18 week appointment. Baby A is beautiful and in the 26th percentile. Baby B is tiny and less than 1%. Other than the size the both look great.
Our MFM doctor has referred us to a nearby hospital to discuss possible RFA…letting Baby B go for the sake of A. If...
@sandlapper3 Agreed. Think of if it was the opposite. “My baby is circling the drain or passed on because they didn’t start treatment until after all testing was confirmed”
NICU’s don’t eff around with respiratory issues and infections. The risk/reward of antibiotics is 100% worth it