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    I don’t think I can cope with a 3rd, and I’m heart broken even though it is the right decision.

    @mairie I can fully relate, and it’s a decision that tortures me daily! I try to remind myself to look at the good in front of me, instead of the hypothetical good at the dinner table in 30 years. Nothing in this life is guaranteed, I definitely want to appreciate and make the most of every year...
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    Age Gap?

    @tiltv4 I have had similar thoughts/ worries about potential age gaps of unborn children ! I then realised that if a smaller age gap was not possible for you (due to external or internal factors), then the larger gap is the smallest that gap could ever have been, if that makes sense? Whenever...
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    Solo parents, would you have another?

    @lovethyneighbourasthyself I know it’s only short term, but don’t underestimate even how short term stress can impact you. I have a 1&3 yr old, very little external support but a husband who is almost always at home (outside work hours). I could not have done it alone, or with one ounce less...
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