@alex26 Honestly I wouldn’t even mention it right now, I’d let him explain it to her and offer support or answer questions she might have. I’m currently pregnant and she’s recently asked me if the baby and her will have the same dad, I still don’t really know how to navigate it tbh.
@seekinggodjesus Not OP but my daughter feels the same way, I have full custody of our child and her father gets visitation. Kids notice things, it’s just not normalized and can be confusing to navigate.
@rvanengen10 Definitely talk to a mediator, depending on your state he could be held responsible as a father figure given how many years he’s spent with your son, even if he’s not legally his father.
@megbot My ex does this too, not really much you can do really. He does it more when we’re around other people, I just vent with my current partner to get over it