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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @stateemil That’s amazing! If you don’t mind my asking, how was pregnancy over 40? I’ve experienced doctors being real jerks about “geriatric pregnancy” and the associated increased costs (e.g., having to go to MFM for scans) kind of frustrating
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @getonyourfeetmusic Omg, warrior! You’re amazing 💪 If you don’t mind my asking, do you send your kiddos out for childcare (eg daycare) or are you a SAHP? It’s the childcare costs that are scaring me about 3-under-3. I didn’t do very well mentally for the 1 year I was a SAHM, and I’m so much...
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @rosierose Thank you! That’s exactly what I’m concerned about — daycare costs for 3 kids at once I was thinking of timing it so that #1 is in Pre-K (we have a public Universal Pre-K program in my region) by the time #3 needs daycare, so we can keep the costs somewhat under control
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @preston354 Oh my gosh 2 sets of twins! You’re amazing. I have 18 month gap between #1 and #2 and I love it! I agree with you — I planned them so close because I didn’t want to taste freedom before restarting from zero again 🤣
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @daniel1986 Haha that’s one way to do it!
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @kmfqs Oh this is so encouraging! Thank you 🫶
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @airamerica Good to hear your perspective! I was thinking of going for something in the range of 3-3.5 year age gap between #2 and #3
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @celoxisppm That’s SO REAL. I’m astonished at how much #2 was already so different from #1 from the second week of life and had a unique personality from the start 😅
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @celoxisppm Oh we do sound very similar! My oldest is also so independent and loves helping. So far it’s been going really well with 2-under-2. But I know that could be a fluke and don’t expect everything to be rosy forever 🤣
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @cadie We had similar issues with fertility causing us to be later getting started. At least for #1. Then #2 happened quicker than I thought possible 😬 Wishing you the best for #3!
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @gloryuntohim That makes me so happy to hear ☺️
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @birdyyyy Mama, you’ve got war stories! 🙌 I’m in awe of you. Have a lovey weekend
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @birdyyyy Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 That’s exactly the kind of feedback I’m seeking. My aging energy levels vs. wrangling high energy toddlers is a challenge for sure. I hope you know how amazing you are for toughing through all that with no help!
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @aolaushtolzey630 I love that! Thank you for sharing
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @aolaushtolzey630 Oh wow! Do you like the 4 year gap?
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @wren84 Thank you, I appreciate this concrete feedback! I was thinking something in the range of 2.5-3.5 years for our next gap
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @faithchangesthinking Awww I love to hear this ☺️ very encouraging
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @john812mom That’s a good point re: weirdness around school timing!
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @birdalive Thank you for sharing! We’re doing 18 month gap right now but I’m not sure I’ll have the stamina to do it like this again
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @quirkycanuck “Pure chaos” you said it!! 😅🫠
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