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    Birth story: unplanned c-section. Help me understand what happened. (TW: birth trauma)

    @ffsstc I am a therapist and well aware of what constitutes a panic attack. I know that I had one. The vomiting and shaking were just other symptoms that contributed to my distress.
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    Birth story: unplanned c-section. Help me understand what happened. (TW: birth trauma)

    @mich1 Yes, the nurses helped me into a variety of positions to push. I kept waiting for the urge to push to kick in, but it never came so I just pushed with the contractions. If anything I wish I could have waited to push until I got that urge, but who knows if I ever would have? Thank you for...
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    I did it. I told my ped.

    @j010203t Told ours at the 2-month checkup and got a similar response! She just said, “well, maybe you’ll want to transition to crib in the upcoming months so you’re not stuck with a toddler in your bed?”. No comment on the safety of it at all.
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    Birth story: unplanned c-section. Help me understand what happened. (TW: birth trauma)

    @emerritt Thank you so much for sharing. Even though I wouldn’t wish the experience on others, it is nice to hear similar experiences from other moms. I feel like I could get passed it more easily if the procedure itself wasn’t so awful. I am in the same boat in that I am considering a smaller...
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    7 months postpartum and body still looking bad. It makes me feel sad to look at it

    @stellasam I think there are certain things you just have to accept (and hopefully come to appreciate) about your pp body, like your incision, stretch marks, saggy boobs, etc. Those are often inherent to childbearing and you have to undergo surgery to get rid of it. I don’t think you have to...
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    Birth story: unplanned c-section. Help me understand what happened. (TW: birth trauma)

    @ellenav Thank you so much for this. It’s such an emotional rollercoaster because I simultaneously feel sad I did not have the vaginal delivery I wanted and also that I need to defend that I had a csection to others because my friends and family have a bias against them. Then there’s also people...
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    Advice about dressing for a wedding postpartum

    @mimi This happened to me. I was a bridesmaid in my BILs wedding at 11 weeks pp. I was back to prepregnancy weight, but definitely not body composition so sizing was still off. Luckily the bride let us all pick different dress styles, so I just ordered a formal dress in the correct color 1-2...
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    Birth story: unplanned c-section. Help me understand what happened. (TW: birth trauma)

    ETA: none of what I say here is meant to reflect anything negative towards other csection mothers. This was just my experience and my feelings about it. I gave birth January 14th at 2:19AM to a beautiful baby girl. I am so happy she is here safely, but I feel seriously traumatized by my birth...
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