@amer73 Except don’t talk to his mom if she believes the same as him, and raised him that way. Because she will only reinforce that idea and they will team up against you about it… ask me how I know…
@glorytogod01 From what I’ve experienced and read, there’s a very rare and specific type of man that will feel the same way as your husband, especially one who continues to feel that way with added children/stress. You really are one of the lucky ones. Because a lot of men feel extremely...
@antnf8900 “Educate husband on how to be a human being with empathy” 😭 end thread. This is what it always comes down to. You can’t beg for your humanity from a person who already decided that you don’t actually matter.
@daxen Yes! It’s not just feed them some crap and do your own thing all day. There’s so much. And the emotional load is EXHAUSTINGGGG. Like did they get enough one on one time? Did they play outside or somewhere to get energy out today? Did they sleep well? Did they nap? Have we done anything...
@rachane He wants a mother who he can verbally and emotionally abuse, have sex with, and then ignore when he’s doing his own thing, I’m sure. I’ve read this story 10000 times sadly.
@jdpligrim I appreciate the advice ❤️ I don’t think that’s the route I want to go, because we really are a great little family. It’s just that we both have our issues, and this one is sooo annoying. BUT I can’t pretend I don’t have my own heinous moments and I’m grateful he didn’t jump straight...
@ajewelinhiscrown Oh helllll no, not ok. You need to have a long talk with her about all of this. If she’s unwilling to listen or change, you have a few options: get a job so that she’s forced to do more, or divorce :/
@drawingangel2 Oh weird! I’m on vacation and my husband threw a HUGE fit last night because we weren’t going to have sex. Mind you, we’ve had horrible issues lately and he knows that I’m still not over a recent incident where his mom was in town and she cussed at me and he just went outside to...