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    @hyunrunj3w No. We did a risk assessment at school and he saw his psychologist. Since he does not have a plan and isn’t planning it out, his doctor made an emergency plan in case that changes with him.
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    @footprintinjapan He said that the only reason he doesn’t do it because he knows that it would hurt me too much. He told me because of that. I snuggle my babies all of the time. That’s why this is so hard. I don’t know what else to do.
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    @blademan9999 Thank you for your kind words. It is just hard. I just needed to get it out. I have to put on this brave face all of the time and be strong for them. But, I felt like my heart was exploding when I heard him say that. I want to take the pain away and show him that he is worth...
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    @lawenforcerofficer1992 I called the police when I found out about the rape. He was tried and is on deferred probation until he’s 18. The son does not live with my ex. I’m not covering anything up.
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    @lawenforcerofficer1992 I contacted CPS and emotional abuse is not worth looking into I guess. I called the police. We go to therapy.
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    @lawenforcerofficer1992 I think that I was needing positive words or something when I wrote this. All of my emotions are just all over the place and I’m exhausted.
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    @tigerraye1 Yea I have them both doing gymnastics twice a week and we just got a trampoline.
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    @tharseo Yea… it’s just a lot to deal with for all of us. I am so angry about the outcome. Especially because he admitted to doing it twice in front of the police. I hate the justice system. If he was an adult the DA said that he would have gotten 30-life
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    @katrina2017 I took every single step to make sure my children are okay and he still feels this way. My daughter(and son) is in therapy and has her own issues. I understand that what happened to her is horrible. She’s not the one who is thinking about hurting herself though. I can’t just...
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    @nerissa1969 I have physical custody right now. They see him about once a week. We have mediation this month
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    @noboundlove We all go to therapy.
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    @iamhisforever They do
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    @yamin I can’t get a protective order against my husband because there is no evidence of abuse. Text messages and forcing himself on me don’t count. I have a protective order for both of my kids against his son.
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    @tharseo And I definitely do not appreciate the insinuation that it is somehow my fault. She was raped for a YEAR and I have done EVERYTHING to fight for her. I called the police. I took her to the ER for a rape kit. I spoke with the detective to have him arrested. I called CPS. I took her to an...
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    @tharseo It’s not weird… I just explained everything quickly. Maybe you should reread it, carefully.
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    @tharseo Okay. First of all, I never said that my daughter isn’t struggling. She’s not the one who told me that she was thinking about killing herself though. The moment that I found out what happened, I have been actively working to get them BOTH help. All three of us are going to therapy every...
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    @phill876 I am focusing on them??? My son is super depressed because he feels like I am the only person that loves him.
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    @phill876 I have them in therapy. We all go once a week.
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    @tharseo The boy got 4 years probation and has to register as a pedophile until the end of it (it’s also deferred). He is their biological father and I can’t just keep them from him legally. I have tried.
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    I just don’t know what to do… In October 2021, my estranged husband (we separated in July of 2021) cut his own throat and told me, “I told you that I couldn’t live without you.” He was lifeflighted to the hospital and survived. The day after Xmas, we found out that his 13 year old son had been...
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