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@icantthinkofausername Wow, it’s so interesting you brought up diabetes because he is type 2 diabetic, and ya it’s been under control for years now, it’s definitely a personality problem at this point lol

@dtttttttd I can tell that his priority is to get recognition and compassion for being sick, but I just do not have that to give after this kind of repeated treatment.

@dtttttttd Yeah. He’s tried to apologize a couple times now but there’s always a BUT… I’m really sick, I have pneumonia, I’m allowed to have an opinion too (which is the most messed up, you’re saying your opinion is that I’m a fucking bitch?). I’ve told him that until the apology includes a...

Thank you all for your comments, I appreciate being supported by my internet friends much more than my husband at this moment. I have a miserable update!!! I tried to talk to him about it and he did not take any accountability for what he said. Double (triple?) downed on his weird insistence...

@annointedgirl77 Ya he goes on a business trip every 3 months for 4 nights or so, I don’t have those trips so he’s never had a night alone with the kid.

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@jamesdtyler Oh no it’s ME who’s been out of work for months lol, it seems to me like that’s the subtext of this whole thing. I do 100% of the parenting now to pick up my reduced income

@katrina2017 Yeah… we have a huge gap on what being sick looks like. It’s 3-4 days in bed for him and apparently abusive verbal communication. We did have an in person conversation about this and it got nowhere. Mostly along the lines of “if I’m in bed all day don’t you understand that I’m sick...

So yeah. Basically as the title states, I don’t know how to move in from this. He’s been sick all weekend, gets VERY defensive when I ask what he feels he will be capable of doing with our kid. I did all of the parenting, cleaning etc while he slept all weekend, I asked him to watch our kid on...