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  1. J

    Advice needed

    @claire19 Their father is choosing the need family. That's revolting but not uncommon. I'm so sorry your children are living this. Pull in all of your supports. Their dad could absolutely maintain a meaningful relationship with his children away from the risk but watch for that to unfold. Do not...
  2. J

    My husband offered me an out yesterday

    @pkhaney Afternoons are awesome. Why can't he take he to school in the morning? . But don't ignore your instincts and seek your own counselling away from his. You need to get your ducks in a row. If he needs a break from work your return to work could save your family. If he needs a break from...
  3. J

    Advice needed

    @claire19 Do not protect the father's feelings. He is choosing this and has chosen repeatedly. Not integrating families with careful intent and pursuing priorities which negate the value and safety of children is far too normalised. This is entirely his mess to clean up but he's abandoning care. .
  4. J

    Daddy sleeping in

    @bettyperson Wasband refused to acknowledge any schedule except his own. He's still a controlling jackarse but not in my home.
  5. J

    Advice needed

    @procakes223 Their dad is drowning out any protective actions by mum as will anyone actively by standing on this. Misogyny is a real obstruction due to gendered weaponised incompetence which is what this is.
  6. J

    Advice needed

    @claire19 Therapists re a disaster when these situations are unfolding. Always they amplify and reward violence. You've ticked every box and done all the right things per advice. Keep one foot in front of the other. It's not easy or simple ❤
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