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@fire1 Definitely! This conversation will be discussed again I’m sure as time passes. Do what works for you and your husband, it’s your lives and you’re the ones that have to live through them so you’re right, no one else can decide for us.

@bezukhov Wow thank you! This was very eloquently said.

@kingdomkings Yeah I know he takes care of a lot too that is adult stuff (mortgage, insurance, finances) but just not the parent stuff.

@maryanne76 Ah that is interesting, idk if I’d feel the same if my husband was the default parent. However motherhood is very different than being a nanny. I’m good with kids and adore my nephews and nieces and have a blast with them but I loved giving them back to their parents and living my...

@phydaux I wish! Unfortunately baby is EBF and nurses to sleep, never took a bottle or pacifier so I’m kinda with her all the time and I’m just waiting until she’s older and we can wean and THEN lol he will learn.

@druusky82 Wow 16 hours a day is rough 😦 I feel like knowing one’s limits is crucial and I’d hate to be a different type of parent than what I am right now and right now although I’m tired sometimes and sometimes overwhelmed (although it’s gotten easier with time) I don’t want to be mad or...

@soosh8005 Yes, I’m waiting until LO is weaned and no longer needs me so that I can ✌️ for a couple hours. And yeah, I know redditors in other communities are quick to be like “divorce him!” Lol but disagreements are normal as long as we can respect and understand each other.

@jamesmason10 Mhmm my husband will get frustrated sometimes and it’s okay that he does but I always want to say “yes, imagine with another one”.

@thehook Thanks! I hope so too!

Like some, I envisioned having two kids before even getting pregnant, I felt that was the norm “they’ll always have each other”. Now…even though I knew kids would be in my future (hubby really wanted kids) I would have been okay either way if we never were able to. But we were able to conceive...

@tisanewseason This is us too! I do unlatch her though because I get very uncomfortable in the same position, but she’ll keep her little hand on top of me 🥺 I don’t get as much done as I’d like but I’m also a SAHM and my partner is very understanding and encourages the bonding and secure...