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    Does anyone else’s working spouse do this? I swear it’s cognitive dissonance

    @ajewelinhiscrown Oh yeah, didn't you know when you became a SAHD you're supposed to be a mind-reader, also?! How often does she flip out on you? It sounds like she's just constantly belittling you in front of the kids. Have you ever considered that she might be abusive to you? I know that...
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    Does anyone else’s working spouse do this? I swear it’s cognitive dissonance

    @katrina2017 THANK YOU. I'm so sick of people blaming any diagnosis they can.
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    I was led to believe he completed the second check after vasectomy, I am now 5 days late

    @sweetiicake Get a blood test. They're accurate. He "can't remember", well that's fucking convenient hey. I'm sorry. I'd be feeling betrayed. He had one job and failed! You've been pregnant, given birth, tracked your cycle.... I'm concerned that it sounds like he tried to instantly turn it...
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    Does anyone else’s working spouse do this? I swear it’s cognitive dissonance

    @ajewelinhiscrown If the roles were reversed, if you were a working man who didn't do any housework because you thought it was your wife's job (in this scenario she'd be the sahp) people would be calling you lazy, saying it's your kids too... etc. So what DOES your wife do? Does she ever help...
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    How to navigate cheating husband as a SAHP?

    @thetwister Do you think it was just a bluff? Sometimes people say things like that to hurt and scare. They want you to be afraid you are going to be giving up that time with them. Sometimes they want that time just so they can present themselves as a "good parent" for asking 50/50 at all...
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    After baby workouts

    @tarina Definitely don't give it up, you will need to do things that you enjoy and it's healthy to have habits outside of just being a mom.
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    After baby workouts

    @annem2017 Yeah, I agree because at first who knows how they will sleep? I think it's not reasonable to get up at 4 or 5AM to get it done early if you've been up at night changing and feeding etc. I think you are just going to have to be flexible before getting a routine. I think some exercise...
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