@ericthesinner
This is too complicated for a 7 year old. She might nod and say she understands but she doesn’t.
The fact that this happens 10x more with your wife screams to me that she is successfully manipulating your wife. Does your wife give in when she has tantrums? You might say no but...
@maxinvasion Let’s back up. How does she fall asleep initially? By herself? With someone holding her? Other?
Also, when she flips her shit, do you come running?