@tapionmajin2 My first kiddo was 7lb 15 oz and my pelvic floor recovered pretty quickly.
My second kid was 10 lbs and I pushed that sucker out the hard way, and my pelvic floor was never the same again.
YMMV.
@pr0cessa If he’s going to treat you like an employee who needs expenses reimbursed (with approval), start charging him hourly nanny rates and for cooking and housecleaning.