@servantofourlord Still a risk factor more than person who doesn’t use or has never used drugs at all though, which obviously I would have preferred but as long as it’s not happening around the kids then it’s none of my business.
@athena1312138 I would wait until 6 months to introduce if possible but of course you are entitled to a life and to move on. She has absolutely no right to have this request granted. She either trusts you to look after the children or she doesn’t.