@deelo00 I’m not, I want him to make this decision solely on what he truely wants since this is a lifelong commitment. I went through my past relationship with someone who gave me 2 great kids but isn’t a part of their lives because he wasn’t ready- so I am keeping my hopes completely to myself and reddit lol
@eatay My husband was born when my MIL was a teenager and now I have a toddler and a preteen as BIL’s. He absolutely loves his little brothers and it’s not weird at all for him, if that’s what you’re concerned about. Now in his 20’s we have our own child. Watching our son with his uncles is amazing! We have a feeling that my youngest BIL will have a great bond with our son as they grow up.
