T-minus 6 days

[ministergongar]

Since we found out about our mini human I've been coming here reading posts to prepare for the big day. Day is set for 7/17 to be induced and now doctor is saying she doesn't think baby will wait till then. I think I am as prepared as I can be but I humbly ask for any last minute advice for first timers. After reading a post earlier I would have never thought about bringing a jacket and chapstick, so now I'm worried there is more I have overlooked.

Looking forward to your advice and seeing everyone on the otherside. Best of luck to you all.

 

[glennf]

@ministergongar Make sure your wife eats before she goes to the hospital. Or both of you eat for that matter.

 

[tobewan]

@glennf And eat a lot! When I was induced, I didn't get to eat for 30hrs. I was sooooo hungry when they finally cleared me. That omelet was the most delicious thing I've ever eaten!

 

[tobewan]

@ministergongar Start your SO on stool softeners now. She will thank you later because that first poo after delivery is horrible.

 

[warriorwithwings]

@ministergongar Obviously don't forget chargers and things to do.

See if the hospital has a fridge in the postpartum ward for patients, and if they do, make a run for a bunch of freezer meals. My husband and I were there for almost 3 days (2 days mandatory, we stayed an extra day for jaundice) and his choices for food were $12 for a meh hospital plate, or $15 on delivery via Postmates/Favor per meal. Shit added up quick. Also when she starts pushing, have the camera in your pocket/within quick reach, even if y'all previously agreed to not record the birth. We both said nah throughout the pregnancy but when I was actually pushing, I changed my mind...hubby managed to grab the cam moments before my last push! We're both really glad that I hollered at him in drugged up slurs to record it lol, it's a very icky yet wonderful memory that won't fade with age since we can always replay it

Best of luck to you and your wife!! Post a pic when you graduate

bonus pic of my now one month old son

https://imgur.com/vTQ0fss

 

[karomar]

@warriorwithwings that is quite possibly the happiest baby i've ever seen

 

[davidhussey]

@ministergongar I have an awesome master list... I'll try to post it in the next day or two. I think it really covers everything. Keep an eye out for when I get it posted.

 

[omsai]

@ministergongar Same boat. Wife is being induced on the 20th, but doc said it's probably happening earlier. See you on the other side brother!

 

[inaraven]

@ministergongar Write down the names of everyone who helps you in the hospital.

 

[tennesseemermaid92]

@ministergongar My wife is due on the 27th but he is in position and engaged right now so we dont think he will wait. This waiting game is killing me.