Every week I go to kind of "tutor" my 4 year old cousin, she's learning to write the alphabet and most of the time she's the one excited to study and keeps asking me to help with her homework.
I've noticed a pattern with her, that she just absloutely refuses to listen to what I say and makes mistakes purposefully, it's not a matter that she doesn't understand what im telling her because is a smart girl.
Examples are like: instead of tracing the dotted letter she makes zigzag lines around it, I tell her that "E" has three lines top/middle/bottom she insists on writing it with 6 lines or most of the time when we sit and color together or write letters she isn't looking at the notebook she's staring at whatever.
This behavior seems weird to me considering she's the one that asks me to do homework with her.
I've tried different methods with her, encouraging by promising her to do an activity later, giving her treats, the silent treatment or even bluntly saying to her I know that you're doing this purposefully and that's not good behavior, but nothing works even the treats.
Any insight on why she may be doing this? And how to deal with it?
I've noticed a pattern with her, that she just absloutely refuses to listen to what I say and makes mistakes purposefully, it's not a matter that she doesn't understand what im telling her because is a smart girl.
Examples are like: instead of tracing the dotted letter she makes zigzag lines around it, I tell her that "E" has three lines top/middle/bottom she insists on writing it with 6 lines or most of the time when we sit and color together or write letters she isn't looking at the notebook she's staring at whatever.
This behavior seems weird to me considering she's the one that asks me to do homework with her.
I've tried different methods with her, encouraging by promising her to do an activity later, giving her treats, the silent treatment or even bluntly saying to her I know that you're doing this purposefully and that's not good behavior, but nothing works even the treats.
Any insight on why she may be doing this? And how to deal with it?