swskehwmbewagor61
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Let me open this by saying I’m a FTM 19 weeks, healthcare professional, and a VERY anxious person at baseline.
At my 12-week NT ultrasound appointment my ultrasound tech was very quiet. I noticed it but attributed it to her not being allowed to say anything to patients so I tried to put it out of my mind. My GP (I was still looking for an OB then) called me on Christmas Day and told me that my NT measured 4.0 mm and 2 of the 4 hormones on the MSS were abnormal. I had a risk of 1 in 2 of my baby having Down syndrome (normally the risk is 1 in 700).
Obviously I broke down.
The waiting game was killing me. From Dec 25, the day of the news, to Feb 4, the day I finally got the last of my results which I’ll discuss, I waited. It seemed like an eternity.
So first, I found an OB (on my 3rd try). He ended up, coincidentally, being a MFM specialist so I didn’t have to go to 2 separate physicians.
Then, I did the NIPT, the results of which took 2 weeks to come back. In the meantime I did an early anatomy scan, which showed that the fetus’ nuchal fold regressed from 4.0 to 2.2 mm. How is that possible? There was no explanation for that. “Sometimes it just happens”. Maybe it was human factor and the previous tech measured it wrong or who knows what, but I decided that I need to continue investigating because “who knows” is not a good enough explanation for me. While I waited for the NIPT results, I was offered an amniocentesis, which initially I was wary of getting because of its 1% risk of miscarriage. However, the doctor explained to me that old-school amnio, where they tap on the belly to guess the baby’s position carries this 1% risk, whereas now they use ultrasound guided amnio, which reduces the risk of miscarriage to 0.3%. Besides, to me personally, a 0.3% risk of miscarriage sounded minuscule in comparison to a 50% risk of Down syndrome (and I understand this is totally personal and individual choice - for those for whom the decision to keep or abort would not change, even a 0.3% chance can sound huge and I respect that).
So I opted for the amnio. It was uncomfortable and I actually had to be poked twice because the first time he couldn’t penetrate through my uterine wall but the second time was successful and he extracted 30 cc of amniotic fluid without a problem. I had no side effects (no cramping/spotting/etc.). I took it easy for the next 3 days (no sex or exercise; technically it should be 2 days but my anxiety forced me to take extra precaution). The reason I decided to go for the amnio is because the NIPT only tests for the trisomies and sex chromosome-related disorders. If they came back negative, I would continue to wonder and be anxious about what else could it be so I decided to do amnio to test ALL chromosome pairs.
2 days later I got the NIPT results - everything was great and my baby’s chance for Down went from 1 in 2 to
At my 12-week NT ultrasound appointment my ultrasound tech was very quiet. I noticed it but attributed it to her not being allowed to say anything to patients so I tried to put it out of my mind. My GP (I was still looking for an OB then) called me on Christmas Day and told me that my NT measured 4.0 mm and 2 of the 4 hormones on the MSS were abnormal. I had a risk of 1 in 2 of my baby having Down syndrome (normally the risk is 1 in 700).
Obviously I broke down.
The waiting game was killing me. From Dec 25, the day of the news, to Feb 4, the day I finally got the last of my results which I’ll discuss, I waited. It seemed like an eternity.
So first, I found an OB (on my 3rd try). He ended up, coincidentally, being a MFM specialist so I didn’t have to go to 2 separate physicians.
Then, I did the NIPT, the results of which took 2 weeks to come back. In the meantime I did an early anatomy scan, which showed that the fetus’ nuchal fold regressed from 4.0 to 2.2 mm. How is that possible? There was no explanation for that. “Sometimes it just happens”. Maybe it was human factor and the previous tech measured it wrong or who knows what, but I decided that I need to continue investigating because “who knows” is not a good enough explanation for me. While I waited for the NIPT results, I was offered an amniocentesis, which initially I was wary of getting because of its 1% risk of miscarriage. However, the doctor explained to me that old-school amnio, where they tap on the belly to guess the baby’s position carries this 1% risk, whereas now they use ultrasound guided amnio, which reduces the risk of miscarriage to 0.3%. Besides, to me personally, a 0.3% risk of miscarriage sounded minuscule in comparison to a 50% risk of Down syndrome (and I understand this is totally personal and individual choice - for those for whom the decision to keep or abort would not change, even a 0.3% chance can sound huge and I respect that).
So I opted for the amnio. It was uncomfortable and I actually had to be poked twice because the first time he couldn’t penetrate through my uterine wall but the second time was successful and he extracted 30 cc of amniotic fluid without a problem. I had no side effects (no cramping/spotting/etc.). I took it easy for the next 3 days (no sex or exercise; technically it should be 2 days but my anxiety forced me to take extra precaution). The reason I decided to go for the amnio is because the NIPT only tests for the trisomies and sex chromosome-related disorders. If they came back negative, I would continue to wonder and be anxious about what else could it be so I decided to do amnio to test ALL chromosome pairs.
2 days later I got the NIPT results - everything was great and my baby’s chance for Down went from 1 in 2 to