justtrying
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Hi There - looking for hope but also real life stories that are similar to mine. I've had two prior miscarriages just before my current pregnancy. The first ending at 9 weeks due to no heart beat and the second terminated at 15 weeks due to Trisomy18 diagnosis. I was very much just starting to feel a bit more relaxed in this current pregnancy as I got all the way to 14 weeks + 4 without any red flags. Up until this point all of my scans measured right on target with no delays, my NIPT test came back low risk, and NT scan came back normal and structurally everything looked and still looks fine. I went in for a scan at 14 weeks + 4 and the baby all of a sudden was measuring 1 week behind. The doctor said we needed time between scans to see how the growth would progress. I went back in for another scan at 17 weeks + 1 and I was then 2 weeks behind. At this apt the doctor measured the basic anatomy (I should mention I see a MFM specialist as my first baby was born early at 32 weeks due to Pre-E which then escalated into HELLP syndrome, this MFM Dr. took me on as a patient when we started trying for baby 2. She's seen all the struggles that 2023 brought us.) At that scan when measuring not everything was measuring consistently 2 weeks behind, some elements were ahead while some were marked 2 weeks behind. I believe they take an average of all measurements taken to determine growth/size. The Dr. also looked for any markers on the US and said that she didn't see anything that would lead her to believe it's a major abnormality and that her mind went to whatever was calling the delayed growth could potentially be a rare genetic condition?? I was offered and have scheduled an Amnio for this Friday at 9am. We are going to look at the base panel for genetic conditions/abnormalities to see if anything flags as abnormal. Not sure when results for this will come back. We also looked at the placenta flow during this apt. and there is nothing to note, flow looked normal and regular. Dr.'s exact words were "I don't think this is a placenta issue".
Obviously I've scoured online reading horror stories of IUGR. I believe I would be trending towards the early onset category since this is showing up on an early 2nd trimester scan, outcomes don't look wonderful in that group - micro-preemies, neonatal deaths, stillbirth, low birthweight, long stays in the NICU. I've also seen terms like FGR for fetal growth restrictions - not really sure when diagnosis of these conditions are done? I feel like I already qualify for both in way but the MFM didn't give me officially where I landed on the % scale with being 2 weeks delayed so I'll try to get that info on Friday for my amnio. I can't help but think this is a new trend that will take place on all future scans and growth will slowly keep ticking under where it needs to be leading my baby to be severly delayed in growth. I've read that babies who are severly delayed 4-8 weeks tend to have stress in utero and can pass away due to the strain.
Please, someone give me hope.
Obviously I've scoured online reading horror stories of IUGR. I believe I would be trending towards the early onset category since this is showing up on an early 2nd trimester scan, outcomes don't look wonderful in that group - micro-preemies, neonatal deaths, stillbirth, low birthweight, long stays in the NICU. I've also seen terms like FGR for fetal growth restrictions - not really sure when diagnosis of these conditions are done? I feel like I already qualify for both in way but the MFM didn't give me officially where I landed on the % scale with being 2 weeks delayed so I'll try to get that info on Friday for my amnio. I can't help but think this is a new trend that will take place on all future scans and growth will slowly keep ticking under where it needs to be leading my baby to be severly delayed in growth. I've read that babies who are severly delayed 4-8 weeks tend to have stress in utero and can pass away due to the strain.
Please, someone give me hope.