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  1. K

    Should my L&D nurse have known I was in labor?

    Asking here because so many of us are part of the PPROM club. Tl;dr - experienced PPROM at 32w5d and was admitted to the hospital. About eight hours after my water breaking I started getting low cramps that felt like really really bad period cramps. Turns out they were contractions. I didn't...
  2. B

    My 9 y.o. daughter is worried about getting fat and every meal is a fight

    My 9 year-old-daughter, for the past six months or so, every meal is a fight with her. She doesn't want to eat anything. She always says she doesn't want to get fat. The thing is, she is nowhere near being fat. We've talked about nutrition, calories, healthy eating. Printed out a BMI chart...
  3. S

    3 y/o son's cancer has grown back. Don't know how to cope

    Dear Daddit, today I received my son's MRI results following his radiotherapy treatment. It was the worst news and has hit me like a truck. His brain cancer has grown back in several new locations. I previously posted in AskDocs about his highly aggressive and very rare brain cancer, here...
  4. S

    Any experience from parents with babies with severe HIE?

    I have a now 8 month old that at 1 week old went through a severe HIE. He had a very sudden silent aspiration that caused him to turn blue and have a 75 minute cardiac arrest. Just when the doctor called it, my little man found a pulse and came back to us. As you can imagine, his MRI was pretty...
  5. J

    PTSD after discharge, when did you feel better?

    Our 30w twins were released one week ago after a traumatic 79 day stay in the NICCU. Twin A is paralyzed from a birth injury and has been a roller coaster with whether or not she’d need a surgery for her heart while she was very little (now the plan is to wait 6 months). Twin B was mostly a...
  6. R

    Looking for dads of families who love exploring and learning!

    Hi dads! I (without disclosing too much) run a startup in the travel space with emphasis on travel, learning, adventure, and fun. We are looking for dads who love exploring and traveling, and would love for you to participate in a 30-minute research interview. You will be able to shape the...
  7. A

    How do you not get hung up on what other babies are able to do?

    Lately my wife and I have been having a rough time with feeling like we are “failing” our son, for lack of a better term. He’s 9 months old, born 3 weeks premature, had jaundice which required light therapy, ended up having torticollis which he is in physical therapy for (and has progressed...
  8. S

    Premie baby coming home on 1/2 liter oxygen

    Our son was born at 25 weeks. He has had a pda closure and has BPD. He is now 10 weeks adjusted. We just brought him home on 1/2 liter of oxygen and he has been doing well with it since they have put him on it. I am just curious of a average time that he will stay on the oxygen until they can...
  9. A

    PPROM at 33.1 weeks B/G twins

    After a few days of thinking I was just experiencing incontinence, woke up this morning and decided the “small leaks” were worth getting checked out. Turns out it was definitely amniotic fluid. We’re admitted to hospital for antibiotics and steroids for babies. And sounds like we’ll be staying...
  10. J

    Feeding Aversion SOS

    Welp Reddit it happened. Our miracle little 550g baby now almost 13 pounds can breath but in 2 days of cue based feeding she now rejects bottles, all of them. We went from 30% bottles to 0% in 2 days. I can’t help but wonder if our nursing staff is just so used to baby’s hating bottles since...
  11. B

    When does the guilt stop?

    Two weeks ago, I gave birth to 2 beautiful twin girls at 30+1. I was diagnosed with severe preeclampsia at 29+0, admitted to the hospital where my water broke at 29+5. They were born into the world kicking and screaming, both well under 3 lbs. They are already showing great improvements, but I...
  12. C

    Born at 26 weeks- constant bradys & reflux

    My daughter was born on Aug 28th at exactly 26 weeks via emergency c-section after incompetent cervix & PPROM. She was on a ventilator for a few days and then moved to a bubble CPAP shortly after. She is now 11 days old and about a week ago she started having bradycardias and spitting up during...
  13. W

    When is it time to give up?

    Kind of a follow-up to this post... https://www.reddit.com/r/daddit/comments/1amw4d6/so_much_to_unpack_i_need_help_though/ Oldest Daughter - A Younger Daughter - J EX - L CPS is dropping their case as unfounded. They just need to do home visits sometime this week to double-check. I've spoken...
  14. R

    I am going home after my C-section and am an emotional wreck having to leave them

    Hi everybody. I am a new mom. We have twins in NICU a boy (2lbs11oz) and a girl (2lbs 4 oz) They were born on Wednesday (27th) at 26 wks 4 days. We knew they would be early, I have a septum in my uterus and they were both on the same side. I'd gone into early labor @23 weeks but we managed to...
  15. B

    Shyloh has been diagnosed with NEC

    Hello y’all, Shy has been intubated. She has some inflammation in her intestines😞 They think we caught it early enough tho. They started her on 3 different antibiotics that seem to be working so far. These next 2 days are going to be long and stressful, and I’m already a mess😭😭 She has a tube to...
  16. R

    2yo + 6 week old + wife with a tumor in her leg

    Fuck fuck fuckity fuck. We have a boisterous two and a half year old and we had a baby a month and a half ago and this week we found out that my wife doesn't have A sprain or ongoing pain from other pregnancy problems.She has a tumor in her leg. Thankfully, it's supposedly benign.We'll find out...
  17. M

    My IUGR story so far…

    Posting to share my story and see if others have had similar experiences and how it turned out. 25+1 FTM. We were diagnosed asymmetric IUGR at the 6th percentile at 24+1. Baby is weighing 543g, his abdomen and head look fine but arms and legs are tiny, in the >1%. Negative NIPT results, no...
  18. G

    Feeding my baby

    I gave birth to my daughter almost 7 weeks ago at 30 and 0 because I had an arterial bleed and a uterine rupture. The last thing we need to do before we can go home is master oral feeding. She’s taking at most 4ML by mouth with a bottle and having trouble sucking when she’s at the breast. I feel...
  19. L

    St. Luke's Hospital in the Poconos took my best friend’s new born son due to prescribed medications being seen as drugs

    My best friend Mike and his wife Grace are both attorneys and parents. Mike shares his wealth of knowledge through tutoring students of all ages. While Grace is an licensed attorney and member in good standing with the PA Bar Assoc. Both are extremely caring and attentive parents. As well as...
  20. T

    Can't Get My Wife Off of Her D*mn Phone

    Just need to vent. I'm a WFH Dad, married to a SAHM. We have a 5yo, 2yo and one due in a couple months. Homeschooling the 5yo. She was in the workforce pre-kids. But she wanted to be a SAHM. My earning potential is 3-5x hers because of our diff fields, and I laid a solid financial base before...
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