man rant 🚹

I really got my husband some great thoughtful gifts this year. One gift was maybe something that he wouldn’t have gotten himself but I put a lot of money and personal thought in it. That didn’t stop my husband from ranting about “dreading holidays and birthdays.” He legit refused to give me a...

So yeah. Basically as the title states, I don’t know how to move in from this. He’s been sick all weekend, gets VERY defensive when I ask what he feels he will be capable of doing with our kid. I did all of the parenting, cleaning etc while he slept all weekend, I asked him to watch our kid on...

I'm married to such a POS. I don't think I can do this anymore. Told him he's a 50/50 partner once he walks though the door. He said his day gets started before ours, 6.30, and he has to be out the door at 7. We have two daughters, a 6 month old and almost 5 year old. I told him I'm up at 6:30...

This week is supposed to be the ex’s weekend to see the boys. He gets them every other weekend. Today I messaged him to confirm that he’d be here tomorrow. Nope. He’s in Columbia. At first he said it’s because he’s working. Then he started the lovebombing. When I didn’t fall for it he said...

Hubby and I are first time parents to an infant. Being pregnant during the pandemic, giving birth, and then going through the newborn stage without really being able to leave the house was tough. Couple that with being together 24/7, working remotely the entire time, and not being able to kiki...

Went to the doctor today and the medical assistant was doing a history, and he asked about prior surgeries. I reported 2 c-sections, at which point he said "much easier than giving birth, huh?"? At first I didn't even register what he said, I thought I misunderstood so I said what's easier? And...

I’m just ranting. My husband works out of town most of the time. I also work full time, I commute for work. until recently I was in school full time (I just received my bachelors), I’m home alone with our almost 3 year old, and we have 6 pets which only ONE is mine. He inherited a house earlier...

I’m on my period. I’m in severe pain. I stayed up all night breastfeeding my 15 month old who has a fever and is teething. He was in complete distress and wouldn’t sleep, whilst my husband was fast asleep the whole night, didn’t flinch at all. So today, my husband slept in until 9.30am...

Edit: I am so overwhelmed by support here, thank you so much. I have read every word and I appreciate this community a lot. He’s facing homelessness. It breaks my heart for him, but I won’t be taking him back. 11 years. 11 years and he left telling me he needed space for a week, but...

First time post here. Just venting, not here for advice unless its tips on better ways not to lose my shit. Utilized every other resource to vent, my entire family and friends are sick of hearing my sht and nothing ever changing. Spent $7k last year on marriage counseling that did nothing...

ExH doesn’t want to help with school supplies. This hasn’t been an issue but magically today it is. “ITs nOt iN tHe ParEnTiNg pLaN” He may consider helping with band instrument bc he may see that as an extracurricular (which we split 50/50). Other bills that seem negotiable are medical...