@xeonome i'm sorry what?? no. your husband needs to help manage the household and raise his child. this is unacceptable.. but its going to be hard to dig out of this. i wish you the best.
@barry61 can your husband say he has a dr appt and you take the first or last appt of the day? and then he watches kiddo. i know some jobs are terrible but hopefully they don't notice a couple extra appts a year :)