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    Severe anxiety about upcoming bachelorette trip for my best friend and leaving baby

    @miyuki256 I would definitely not go. Hell I wouldn't even want to leave my 7 year old for 3 nights definitely not a breastfeeding baby. A true friend would understand, however, if you have made commitments to pay I would make sure you still pay it if deposits have been paid. My friend dropped...
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    I just got an IUD and y’all scared me for no reason

    @southcountry Who the hell messages someone else trying to talk them out of birth control because of pain?! It's entirely subjective. I was terrified for mine to and found it to be no big deal, I love my IUD. You really don't know unless you try it for yourself.
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    I'm 42 with a 7 month old - want more but am EXHAUSTED

    @gordon63 Children don't need siblings, they need a happy sane mother. Honestly seems crazy to me to have another child just to occupy the first one, there's always fostering or adoption of older children if you really think it's needed one day
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    Christmas morn w/ an only?

    @rosemeka13 My kid is usually more into Halloween or Easter than Christmas, but this year we had lots of excitement with Christmas eve. We took her to a pantomime and she LOVED it, smiled and laughed like I've never seen through the whole thing, I definitely felt that Christmas magic. It felt...
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    Why should I not let my baby “use me as a human pacifier”

    @yoshinat0r Pacifiers and bottle teats are made to look like nipples. They do not use you as a pacifier, it's the other way around. I am unaware of any reason why it would be harmful to them, but you may regret it for a number of reasons like they depend on it to get to sleep and one day you...
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    How can I tell whether I really want another, or just feel like I should?

    @amandabritobaez I wouldn't make any decisions now. An age gap is not a big deal and can be a good thing. I had a very small age gap with my sibling and did not like it, everything is a direct competition and you don't need to develop social skills like making friends which held me back. Any...
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    "The Wagon Stroller Will be a Waste of Money Without a Sibling..."

    @snpdoll11 Omg my dad always says that! and now I'm like that too even though I know it's ridiculous 😬 I can't leave any food on my plate without hearing his voice, definitely not passing on that habit to the kids lmao
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    "The Wagon Stroller Will be a Waste of Money Without a Sibling..."

    @snpdoll11 My daughter potty trained really quickly and we still have half a pack of nappies around, I often think about having a second child because I'd just hate for them to go to waste..
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    0 to 1 child, or 1-2 children? Which was a harder transition for you?

    @andy1993 I have not had 2 yet so I can not give advice on what's easier but I was also blessed with an easy baby and faced the same decision. My advice would be don't have another baby just to give your child a sibling, have one if you want another baby right now. Look at your family and ask...
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    OAD, even with one remaining embryo?

    @dof7 Think of the money and time spent getting that egg as the price paid to give yourself a choice. Your mum and your sister did give you a beautiful gift, the gift of choice! You can decide what you want. Honestly though, sounds like you already know the choice you want to make.
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