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    Does anyone feel that twins is just a setup to fail?

    @balancedworld I don’t want to sound rude or anything but… are you doing this alone? Where’s your partner in all of this? I’m 7.5 months in with our girls and while there are hard days , I don’t feel like I’ve been set up to fail. I feel like I’ve been set up to learn . Both of our girls are...
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    The moment you realize you’ve made it is when your baby will have the dad you didn’t

    @garry25 His motive (more like my stepmoms) was to post online about the perfect family and how close we are as a family especially since this was in 2021 and things were still tense with covid and all that. The kicker is that my dad and stepmom have me and my sister blocked on social media so...
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    The moment you realize you’ve made it is when your baby will have the dad you didn’t

    @garry25 It’s ok, I’ve come to terms with my real with my dad being nonexistent and the only reason I agreed to meet up with him on that trip (because I could’ve gone on the trip with my fiancé) is because I knew there was some type of motive behind the trip and I wanted to know why, my sister...
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    The moment you realize you’ve made it is when your baby will have the dad you didn’t

    @garry25 Yeah , I think it makes it worse that all he had to do was wait 1 hour . I was living in NYC with my fiancé (we’ve been dating 3 years at this point) and my dad went to NYC to visit and wanted us to catch up but my fiancé had to travel for work those days that my father was flying in ...
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    The moment you realize you’ve made it is when your baby will have the dad you didn’t

    @garry25 I gladly have a relationship with my mom but my dad hasn’t even met my fiancé and we’ve been together for 6 years. That’s how crazy it is and I’ve seen my father like twice in the past 6 years.
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    The moment you realize you’ve made it is when your baby will have the dad you didn’t

    @garry25 Every time I look at how my fiancé is with our twins (5 months old F) and how involved he’s been since the day he found out I was pregnant till right now , it makes me glad and so happy that my children will not have the relationship I have with my father who doesn’t even know they...
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    Now that it is a bit colder I am always confused how to dress the babies

    @jeaninmt I live in NYC I feel the struggle, the first time I went out alone with my 2 month old twins it was 35 degrees Fahrenheit outside and I went crazy trying to figure out how to dress them because I already had 2 layers and I was still cold ,how the heck will I know if they’re warm enough...
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    This newborn stage is killer , my boy is 6 weeks and is up every hour or so feeding , any advice to get through this ?

    @tiiira I can only tell you what has worked with us . I have 9 week old twins and since they were 2 weeks old we started doing routines and we have been consistent with them and strict with them, especially their night time routine. They go to bed in a dark room with a white noise machine , we...
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