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@wrm11 Wow, u are brave standing up to a family member. It must have been hard. Can I ask what happened to make you cut ties? It’s ok if not.

@helivesinyou Yes agreed might not be that hungry, I would save it and give it a later time. There could be something else they might be upset about an this just threw them over the emotional cliff.

@wrm11 I’m sure it’s not that bad, it’s just that she is 3 years old and it could have been completely preventable. And I have heard a couple of Stories about contracting it at this age that scares me. Anyway, yes I went no contact with her from the age of 19 till 30 when I had my LO, she seemed...

@alexnobi I had no idea she had this when I showed up, I’m not sure what version of herpes she has but it’s on the lip. I immediately saw it and told her to keep her hands and lips of my LO. I noticed she didn’t respect my wishes and left after 15 min. And I’m beating myself up because I feel...

@katrina2017 Yes I honestly questioned the whole thing because I have never heard about this. But she ended up showing me her test results because I straight up told her I don’t believe it, and it did say it was positive. She had a skin test of the rash.

@gloriabex Yes I am such a strict person with people kissing her. Even my mom. She breaks every boundary I set with her. She has previously let her drink soda from her glass before even tho I had let her know that no one shares a glass with my child and she is not allowed to drink soda! And both...

@katrina2017 I always had that impression too but I have a friend that got spit on by a patient that had a active outbreak in her mouth and she got infected with it, but her herpes ended up like a rash on her neck and jaw area. This confused me.

@fender57 Yes, she does. It really angers me more and more thru as the day has went by. I’ll probably feel less and less angry when I feel safe that she won’t have been infected. To add on top of this, she is having a small cold right now, I’m definitely worried about her immune system being...

@christian13 Omg! To her brain!??! That’s crazy! Yes I’m absolutely worried. I’ve heard some stories about different types of outbreaks and many are more scary than what many in the comments have personally experienced with “just a cold sore”. This right here is exactly what I’m scared of.

@thanful1 😮‍💨

@thanful1 If she is in denial I would encourage her to take a blood test to prove it. Honestly it’s dangerous if she would infect a future infant of hers or someone else’s because of her denial.

@wobblybobbly56 I know I’m completely beating myself up over this. I should have known better. Im so mad at myself. I’m just hoping that she won’t get the consequences.☹️

@calwalnut You are awesome for having the compassion to make the effort. I have struggled all my life with my mother, she completely lacks self insight to her behavior. She ruined me and my brothers childhood and left us at the age of 8 years old. This is why I went no contact for several years...

@kingdomlife37 Thank you!! Yea I am worried I just don’t want that this is the way she contracts it…. 😩 and yes it’s common but that doesn’t need she needs to get it. Thank you for the validation🥰

@h312 If there is ever a next time, I am definitely leaving.

@bigadolph420 This is exactly my point! You are so considerate! I wouldn’t want mine to deal with that especially if it’s preventable, and given to her by someone that’s supposed to have some common sense 😩 she probably will get it in her lifetime but not like this!😩

@bigadolph420 I visited her, I left after 15 min after seeing how careless she was. I really hope that it was no damage from her, giving it to my LO I mean. Hoping to hear from other people and their experiences.

@fundyden Wow! I had a co worried that had it in her eye and she almost went blind during an outbreak, she had to get donor retinas or something like that to have it fixed. 🫨 yea I don’t feel like I’m over reacting even tho many here is insinuating it. I do not have it so the thought as well...

I don’t have a good relationship with my mom, just need to put this out there first. It’s extremely strained and she is stepping over boundaries constantly. Because of this I see her maybe 1 time every 2-3 months. She never notifies me of she is sick or anything before our planned visits, as...