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@santaclaws I understand. 2 good eggs are definitely possible! No one can predict what cards we'll be dealt in life, but I think you should only have that 2nd kid if you think you'll be able to love and mentally and physically handle them being a bad egg.

@santaclaws But what if the 2nd child turns out to be the "bad egg" and the 1st one is awesome??

@ericak101 My little sister is 5 years younger than me so I have memories of being an only child. I was happy being an only child and I am happy being a big sister (though I've wondered what it would be like to be the younger sib). The first few years of being a big sister was a bit difficult...

@cassiabr Tell her to give it time before making a final decision - bringing a human life into the world should never be rushed into. But in the meantime, try couple's therapy to talk through the situation with an unbiased person. But I agree that if it's not an enthusiastic yes from both...