@johncon121 Just want to note that although you might not care about genetics, your child might. If you go with the option of using a donor embryo, it’s worth popping by r/donorconceived or just reading up generally on the experiences of donor conceived people.
@josephjurg Me too! I fucking hate being on my phone but my body and brain are too fried for anything but mindless redditing rn. This is not a permanent state though!
@cesar07 There’s no right or wrong answer here. You know your situation best, what you can or can’t handle, and what you’re willing to handle. Neither decision will be easy. Be kind to yourself and lean on those who will support you.