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@katrina2017 Very true. Which is why if we do have another l will wait til, at the least, the oldest is 5. That way they can hell be a distraction lol just kidding. But we'll figure it out(if l get the courage to talk about it)

To add on and not sound like a martyr, l do take on most if not all of the night feedings, doctors appointments, etc. Not that he isn't involved as a dad but it could help my argument that life won't change much for him lol

@katrina2017 I like the phrasing of this! I'll probably use this.

@katrina2017 I like the idea of using a time limit. I am no stranger to the toddler phase since l work at a daycare and am the oldest of 5 kids. It would be something for my husband to get used to though. But that's why l think waiting til the oldest is at least 4 is a good idea.

@tammyasks I had my first only 3 months ago....but l have wanted a family for 7 years now. My SO and l have been together for 10 and our whole thing is compromise, but l would at least like to voice my idea soon.

Before my ambition for a bigger family is shot down, yes l did just have a baby. Hear me out. I have come to the conclusion that while my first experience giving birth was "traumatic"(an unplanned C-section l hadn't prepared for) it honestly wasn't bad recovery wise. Long story short if l talk...