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@david321e Thank you for sharing! May I know how old were you when you had your second?

@paulgilldrums Sorry, I meant that she can be SAHM if she wants to (she has brought that up in the past). But she's in a career where going back after a break may not be easy. Thanks for sharing the link. One thing I notice on such subs is that majority of posts are from new parents which makes...

@sicky12 Thanks for sharing. Wishing you luck with your decision too!

@ibelongtojesus777 Thanks for sharing! I do agree that an age gap of 6-7 years doesn't matter much in the grander scheme of things.

@ckoel Thanks for sharing your perspective. You are right that doing it for current child's benefit is a big reason. I am having a hard time convincing myself if that's a bad reason given that I see so many siblings being thankful for each other (while I understand that some aren't). And I...

Hi all, Long time lurker and currently going through indecision about being OAD. We are currently 40M and 37F and initially wanted 2 kids. We had our daughter 7 years ago. We then decided to be OAD due to multiple reasons: Our relationship went downhill due to the stress of a newborn. My...