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@jennitexan I think this is a very reasonable solution assuming he can handle the kids. It puts the onus back on him: "Don't like being a stay at home dad? Make. A. Plan."

@xpres Frankly, at least with my ADHD husband, this way lies anger. For someone who doesn't struggle with project management it can be MADDENING to try to help, give someone just a small component of the project to manage themselves, and then see them flail unproductively---often while blaming...

@goldensleather Sometimes we marry people who need help in ways that don’t make sense to us. My husband is very capable and highly intelligent. But creating a long term roadmap for his life is not one of his skills. He has ADHD and like your husband can get himself enmeshed in irrelevant...