@techyinaz I would have an age appropriate conversation with them about him disappearing. You don't need to say he's lying to everyone or he cheated. I would mention something along the lines "your dad is going through some emotionally tough times and is not ready to parent since our split". I'm...
@abigal13 This happened to me when I dated a single mom. She made it clear she didn't want anymore kids. We had a talk about this and a few other things. I still wanted to be with her so it sucked ending the relationship but it was for the best. Talk to him and be firm..tell him straightforward...
@kim75 Many single parents work, have kids, and are alone. It definitely is a tough lifestyle but you can do it. However, you do have an option of adoption or making someone a legal guardian if they agree.