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@sam77 Isolation is a common tactic for someone looking to keep control over some/all aspects of their partner's life. It helps to establish and maintain their position in the power dynamic because there's no one around to call out the abusive behavior. Here's a short blog from Lundy Bancroft...

@kimrossie Oh, it's B hands-down for me. The past few years have shown me how unpredictable life can be - what if housing/reno costs skyrocket again and you can't renovate, or go underwater on the house? What if friends switch jobs and relocate? House B is still close enough without the space...

@ajewelinhiscrown SAHP responsibilities are just a heavy load on the working memory, I'd see this as simply a string of bad luck and not a sign that you're slipping! Could be even that the perceived pattern is making you hyper aware of your mistakes. Re laundry, I wonder if you could set up a...