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    IVF Twins: 2 girls, or 1 boy + 1 girl, what would you pick?

    @chuckm I'm still confused because implanting two was the norm when I tried 20 years ago but apparently when I mentioned that I got downvoted to hell lol (did two then three, both from frozen, neither worked). Obviously, I'd go for the healthiest ones. But all things being the same, I'd go for...
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    My husband and I just got a call after my 14 m.o. daughters’ first week at a new daycare…

    @onlyonetruth That's why I was a SAHM but finding a job after was HARD.
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    Pregnant with twins and devastated

    @coolguy123 It's overwhelming, but please if you still think the same way in a few months, get some counseling. I grew up knowing that my mom wanted a single boy as a brother for my older brother and got twin girls instead and it sucked. She always favored him.
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    Choosing NOT to do daycare

    @fab01 It was no sense financially for me to work. Kids started preschool at 2.5 in a (ridiculously cheap) co-op.
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    Update: The message I sent my therapist. This was hard for me to do, but thank y'all for giving me the courage. ♥️

    @djseb I'd fire her on the spot. A therapist isn't supposed to make you feel worse! I'm so sorry!
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    I’m 4.5 months in and it’s still hard.

    @grace4us I didn't give my kids enough attention when they are little because I just didn't have the mental capacity for it either. It was so hard. Don't be too hard on yourself!
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    Confidence taking care of babies alone as a SAHM

    @cookie1720 You just do it because there's no other option. And yes, there were a lot of tears involved, lol!
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    Separate rooms for b/g infants?

    @pvr When they asked, so 7 or so. But yeah it would have made some things easier for sure if they had been split up (especially after we got rid of cribs).
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