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@claire_ Thank you for saying this. My libido is incredibly low. He would always get mad I would initiate or like I was just trying to get it done. Asked me what turned me on and I would always say GOOD DADS. Like we didn’t have a shared experience, we didn’t have a close proximity so...

@k9subsea A goddess 😭 thank you so much. I’m a sign language interpreter so it’s mentally exhausting. I was in school for environmental science hoping to work in wildlife rehabilitation but now I can’t move right now for a job, I can’t take a pay cut and I can’t work hours that are outside of...

@missbrigid I love this. You’re totally right I’m just ready to FULLY feel it. GOOD FOR YOU. I’m ready to be in your same shoes.

@zecsampro Lol I should have took my advantage. My WAY younger step sister was begging me to let her smash his guitar lol. I should have let the kid

@shephard Lol yes. Our rage rooms shut down around here unfortunately but yes. I’m going to start with smashing these pumpkins all over. Cathartic indeed.

@joshuavargas Man. I just can’t. I think my son right now is too young but while still in utero?! No way… He was excited when I was pregnant but he was so arrogant to all those cliches like “you’ll fall in love when you see that baby” so set to not fit that and he never did. Our son never...

@mac101263 I’m not sure what you read but this has been the DARKEST YEAR OF MY LIFE. I was put on suicide watch last December after the accidental death of my dog. I crawled out of a black hole after losing him. It was April I got back in school full time like. I was doing my best…I was...

@mac101263 Major league

@katrina2017 I seriously appreciate this. I am being told I’m brave and strong and I don’t feel it but every time I’m told that it just makes me walk a little taller and push through. It’s just a shit show.

@katrina2017 It’s unbelievable. I just thought he was grinding, I was grinding and we were slowly improving our life. I understood it was just a season and he burnt it to the ground. I had to CATCH him. He wasn’t going to stop. I saw this loser through so much. Honestly it’s my fault. I was...

@claudiav ❤️ waiting for the ultimate healer of time to help me. Alongside all of you.

@carolyn111 Thank you thank you thank you ❤️❤️❤️

@artoniquenelson Thank you for giving me more words to put behind my feelings. Yes not only was he useless but he just caused so much damage. I don’t have high self esteem but I’m aware that I’m a catch. Waiting for life to hit him hard too…I will be here waiting and watching.

@katrina2017 Any chiming in is welcome

@katrina2017 I need too. I’m in the US. Since I have to process all of this in real time and I can’t just write him off I’m going to need help.

@victorinus I did. I was in the clear. Thankfully so.

@shannonpate6 You sound more like my sister about the situation. It definitely takes TWO.

@shannonpate6 We’re from the same boat. I remember being as young as 10 thinking like why don’t they just get a divorce? My parents finally divorced in my late twenties. “Staying together for the kids” is probably the most unhealthy choice. Thank you for saying that. It helps me keep pushing...

@katrina2017 I would LOVE to be sole parent. He’s okay. Like…I wouldn’t mind them having supervised visits I just don’t trust him for hours on end or overnight. I got overnights pushed back. I guess I’m feeling out the situation… I’m not sure…I don’t think he would psychically hurt him but idk...

@steelebilly I think I’m being overly protective but right I did it by myself and now I have to trust this loser to do it. He isn’t physically abusive but he is an alcoholic so I don’t trust how much he pays attention. He feels like a stranger to me and I don’t know what he will and won’t do. My...