@batman21 Call the police or CPS and have them go do a safety check. Specifically mention the car seats. She will figure it was probably you, but you don't need a "friend" putting down your choices to make her negligence feel better. Also, none of us know what we are doing. You are an awesome mom.
@ragnar98 Good for you! So if taking child to the doctor on his day off is too much work, he must obviously realize that means all you do it work. Right?!