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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @katrina2017 Your own sovereign is what I’m reading! Not a bad idea lol
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @katrina2017 The nation should be divided into two: those who want to commingle and those who want to settle. People like you and I wanted to have the family life but got mistreated to the point we don’t want to try now.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @meme3 Which is why this is Reddit, and anonymous-posting site. I don’t have any online dating accounts. When I do talk to men in person, I am not talking about my past. I’m trying to put my best foot forward. Plus, if someone is bitching about their ex on a date, that’s a red flag.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @quasaur You are in the correct head space. What some see ad loneliness, you see as freedom. I love it!
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @tasjane Never! My kids see me laughing and cracking jokes all around the house. I do get frustrated and exhibit that when I have one kid breaking things and the other one crying. But I never throw any guilt their way. I would never blame my kids for my singleness. If anything, my kids are the...
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @rrob692326 You said it right! My kid’s father is the young sibling. I’m the oldest and the only daughter. You can see where this is going. When he lived with us, I was a mother of five…until his ass moved out. It seems like the father of our kids wanted a big family, but were not built for what...
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @ginakjv YESSS! At the moment, I’m definitely taking care of myself. Improving in every way possible! Exercising, self-care, and my career 🤌🏻
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @mrmarkyboy I hear you. Unfortunately, we are in an age group where 80% have at least one divorce. It’s a risk spending time to find out if he was the reason for the divorce.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @christiansarecrazy He took your son to the mistress house?! Wow. Well one thing is for sure, you’re going to raise these boys to not end up treating women like that.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @uziel This is an amazing response. Thank you! I have been single for well over a year. When I was in a relationship with my ex, he’d never take me out on dates or take us out as a family. I shouldn’t say never but it was extremely rare. When he lived here in the home, I had to do more chores...
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @mdf This is so me! I’m doing aerobics now lol. When the kids are gone— so am I! I’m not home. Busy spending time with my girlfriends!
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @bkcutler7 This is the path that I’m going through now. Shifting my focus from relationship-oriented to just living life getting prettier and healthier. Of course, have fun…which is something I did not have with my ex.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @james685 There are more men willing to date mothers of one or two children. I have 4! We are rooting for you!!!
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @feudum You know what, that sounds like a good dating tip— parents only! If we have the hearts to raise little ones….we definitely have the hearts to care for a partner! My fellow single-mom friends pay extra attention to how active a dad is in a child’s life.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    @jc4us This is where I am at right now. I can do things like travel and get to do less chores now that dad is gone. Also, kick-starting my career.
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    Accepted my fate that I am just a vessel for my kids and this lifetime will be spent living in the shadows. Single mother of 4, 30 y/o

    I am 30, soon to be 31. I have always considered myself to be the hopeless romantic type. Obviously, I have allowed my heart to lead my life….because I wanted to build a family and did not allow myself to really analyze the partner I chose to father my kids. In short, their father has always...
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