@straw23 I agree it’s weird. I would suggest a better get to know each other activity would be having dinner with other parents. Sleeping in a hotel room with other parents is weird.
@essentiallyme It’s not a girl thing. If my girls asked, I would tell them how but at 10, she is old enough to handle this on her own. Her Mom doesn’t need to do it for her especially if your daughter is uncomfortable.
@echo73 Move to your parents. It maybe at capacity but it’s better to than being tortured emotionally staying with BD. Protect your mental health and leave now.