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@katharine456 So much so on the differences of opinions. It’s like emotional whiplash and just exhausting trying to be the one constant. Thank you so much. Yes, I’m trying to remind myself that I need to be the best I can for him!!

@blecap1 You’re totally right about the primary nurse. There are so many things I probably should have spoken up about earlier but I told myself not to make a fuss and to play nice. I’d say 75% of the time we have one of three nurses that I really feel comfortable with, which is great. We got a...

@newbie2 Right?? “He’s supposed to still be in your tummy!!!!” Oh I freaking know!! The amount of anxiety and guilt I have about it is unreal!!! I’m fully aware!!! Gah. I know people try to be helpful but like…. Read the room. I’m trying to be very level-headed but you’re making it hard with all...

@legrandvn You’re so right. I’m feeling guilty about being so angry at myself/the world that he’s in there. I know that’s so incredibly irrational. But every so often a nurse will make a comment about how he’s technically supposed to still be on the inside and I’m like… you think I don’t know...

@alexa0225 Yes! So true. I feel so guilty being annoyed by them, but oh my goodness. I get told the same thing over and over again and after a while it feels so condescending. I just want to be with him and my husband in our own little world. I was getting so irrationally annoyed when they spoke...

@worship7 It is so exhausting. I think I’m getting more annoyed with myself because my aversion to all of the “stuff” is making me irritable and not want to be there. Which is awful and I want to be there for him. I love being with him and holding him… I hate all the extraneous business. We...

Hi everyone, My son was born at 34 + 0 due to preeclampsia. During induction he had intolerance to labor which was later found to be due to the cord around his neck. We have been in the NICU 18 days now and he’s doing really well, right now we’re working on feeding stamina. I want to say from...

@tiiira Hi! I’m in this boat right now…. Baby is one month “old” today but only 38 weeks. So did you find that everything for expectations of behavior was set back? I hope this question makes sense…. Very little sleep right now!

@ctct123 Hi! I’m currently in this stage… baby is one month “old” today but only 38 weeks. What did you find in your experience?