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@sistrin It seems normal to me. I don’t know anybody who’s ever really been able to picture it and then has been right about what it actually looked like for them. I kind of feel like other life stages are the same. Like, I didn’t visualize living in my first apartment or moving in with my wife...

@b1inchrist Have you looked into CNY Sarasota? They just launched that location but IVF there is much less than $23k. The standard package that includes meds starts at just under $6k and then it’s a little bit to store embryos and $995 per additional transfer. The package comes with a fresh...

@joybubble Yeah, there’s really only a 20% chance of conceiving on each try even if you do it perfectly timed. For healthy, normal couples with no fertility issues and where the person with eggs is under 35, a doctor will not be even slightly concerned unless it takes over a year.

@shinystar So the “boy mom” thing is like the intersection of leaning into gender roles as an excuse for boys to be wildly off the rails but also the weird emotional incest. Like imagine what all the nightmare MILs you read about on Reddit were like when their sons were little.

@razman10 My parents took two years to conceive me, with two miscarriages first, and then conceived my younger brother on the first try. It’s mostly luck of the draw!

@shinystar Mentally starting to add mine up like: Doesn’t vaccinate Calls herself a “boy mom” in a super weird way Makes a potentially homophobic face when I mention my wife 😩

@yakdip I’ve got the opposite issue - I’m 35 and wife and I are about to start trying. All of my friends intend to never have kids. I’m going to have to make “mom friends” at parks and I already hate it.

@jesus_is_our_lord My wife and I both did it! It helped us realize that while we’re both technically within normal range, her numbers are more ideal than mine and we decided she’d carry based on that.